My Heart Breaks for you!  / Julie Westly (none/aunt of Vet )
Dear Steven and Steven's Family,

My heart goes out to you.

We lost our Josh, an MP in the Army Reserves,
just two weeks ago after he suffered for a year
with Post Tramatic Stress Disorder after
returning from a year in Iraq.

here is Josh's, please look through it:

http://joshua-omvig.memory-of.com/

As you can see, we are trying to unite families
for support, we have only just this week created
this group but daily we are finding families in
need of the connection.

We'd love to invite you and your family to join
us:

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/SLOOMS/

God Bless!



JulieW forever missing my nephew Josh,
An American Hero, gone too soon

Visit his site to light a candle:

http://joshua-omvig.memory-of.com/
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Happy Birthday  / Lisa
it's a few days late .. But I wanted to say Happy Birthday . I didnt forget !!! It's been a bad week and I just wish you were here .
So many times I wonder how is heaven ? Is it really all they say it is? Is there really no pain there ? How would the holidays be in heaven ? Your birthdays? Would you still have a celebration ? Or is everyday a celebaration?
I just wonder....Wonder if you can still here us down here ? Can you still see us ? are you still with us ? it's been almost a year....and our pain is still so real ... all to raw.
i miss you little brother now more then ever.
May you have the happyest birthday you could ever have .. the happiest holidays' ever.. and may you spread your wings and fly for we all love you dearly and miss you sooooo much. Close

Remembering you  / Valerie Loveless (Aunt)

Not a day goes by that I do not think of Steven, Collin, Natalie, Harry, and everyone else in the family who Steven has touched throughout his life.  One day when I was thinking of Steven I had a need to write a poem.  I have not written any poems for several years (Since I was a teen) and was surprised by my need to write one.  I wanted to write a poem that I felt Steven would enjoy and also I found it helpful for myself to ease the pain.  I now feel that I can share with other family members.  I feel that it probably is something that Steven would say to others who were missing him.  I only knew Steven for a brief period but during that brief time I can honestly say I found him to be a very Brave,Kind, Caring, Sensitive, loving father and husband.  I admired Steven very much for to me he grew into such a wonderful man.   I miss him very much and wish we had more time to get to know each other better.  Love to all and I am thinking of everyone this Holiday Season, Valerie  Loveless

Remember Me
Dedicated to all who were touched by Steven and
to those who have lost a loved one

On the day you feel a Summer breeze.
When you see the first fall leaves.
In the winter cold when you see the snow fall
and during the spring where the green grass will grow.
Remember me
For now I am free.

If you see someone in need.
When you see someone do a good deed.
If you feel a loving touch.
you will realize I loved you very much.
Remember me
For now I am free

Please don’t shed any tears!
God has taken away my fears.
At this time we may seem far apart.
Please know I am forever in your heart.

Remember me
for now I am free.

Love you Steven, Love Aunt Valerie  ("Your Aunty")

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Blessings & care Steven  / Jane Einarson (I care )
Dear Steven, although I don't know you, I just wanted to say thank you for serving your great country. I am proud to have the USA as my friends & neighbor. God Bless you & your family this season. Please watch over them. Love & respect XXOO Close

That time of year..  / Lisa Grubb (Sister)




 

That time of year has come... colder days and less of the sun.
Christmas trees and pretty lights.. that cover the city's and town's by nite.
Your birthday soon and new years too..
Oh, I dont know what were gonna do.
We miss you sadly .. even tho some won't say
I know the pain is there each and every day!
I look around often .. looking for a sign ..
as if I could hear you or see you by my side.
So many holiday memories..that play back in my mind. But the ones that will hurt the most are the ones left in time!
We will miss you this year and every one that follows..
If only one more chance we would have held on stronger!
I can't imagine mom and dad.. and how they will make it through .. deep down they will be crying cause it's not the same without you !
And Angel, David and Tom..... the strenght they try to show .. but we all know that deep deep down they really won't let go !
And as for me and the kids.. and Frank to ..
well when we light our first set of lights it will be with a prayer to you !
By our sides.. in our hearts.. and always in our minds! You will be with us little brother through out  all of time! Merry Christmas & Happy Birthday Steven ... we love and miss you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Close

Sad Holidays  / Lisa (Sister)
It's been so many years since we got to spend a holiday together and now your gone and we will never get the chance again .As the holidays and your birthday near  .. you are in my thoughts more then ever.. I know your safe and that your with God and smiling down on us ! But it will never be the same .. this year we will say an extra prayer to you and for you !May you always hear the wonderful things spoken about you ..may you always see the love that we all carry for you ! and May you never forget even in death that we are all forever family and you are forever a part of us all!!!!
we miss you little brother !!!! Happy Halloween .. And Happy Thanksgiving.
Love always and til the end of time,

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Who You'd Be Today  / Lisa (Big Sister )

Who You'd Be Today
Sunny days seem to hurt the most
I wear the pain like a heavy coat
I feel you everywhere I go

I see your smile
I see your face
I hear you laughing in the rain
I still can't believe your gone

Chorus:
It ain't fair
You died too young
Like a story that had just begun
But death tore the pages all away
God knows how I miss you
All the hell that I've been through
Just knowing no one could take your place
Sometimes I wonder
Who you'd be today

Would you see the world
Would you chase your dreams
Settle down with a family
I wonder what would you name your babies
Somedays the sky's so blue
I feel like I can talk to you
I know it might sound crazy

Chorus:
It ain't fair
You died too young
Like a story that had just begun
But death tore the pages all away
God knows how I miss you
All the hell that I've been through
Just knowing no one could take your place
Sometimes I wonder
Who you'd be today

Today, today, today

Today, today, today

Sunny days seem to hurt the most
I wear the pain like a heavy coat
The only thing that gives me hope
Is I know, I'll see you again someday

Someday, someday

By Kenney Chesney..

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we still miss you !  / Lisa (Big sister.. )
It's almost 6 months since you passed away
and even tho it's been that long it feels like yesterday
Not a day passes that we dont think of your smiling face
or all the memories we carry of you that we wont let be erased
Sometimes I think your around us .. as little signs seem to
apear and other times I think it's my mind wishful thinking u to be here .
I know your safely in heaven watching over all of us now. But
If I could trade god the angel on my shoulder, for you, I would  some how !!!!
Now I know I seem like I am rambling and like things seem to never change .. but little brother .. if I could I would bring u home with us again.
Today .. tomorrow and always,
with love
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I miss you  / Kaycee McKie (sister's brother)
Steven Micheal.. I miss you so much it unbelievable.. Your still in everyone's heart and mind.. You left so much behind.. Colin,Natelie and your whole family and friends.. Everytime we talked through email you were saying that you were doing good.. You always asked about my family.. I love and miss you.. Close

Brother / Brittany (Sister)
Big Brother- I don't even know where to begin, but nothing could take away the sadness I have, knowing that your gone. I miss breathing with you on the phone since all you ever said was How's school? Are you staying out of trouble? Any new boyfriends? You were a big part of everyone's life and you will always be. No person in this world could ever take your place.You are the best. I love you. Love Always and Forever -your little sister  Close

2 Months today ....  / Lisa Grubb (Sister)
Dear Steven...
    I can't believe I am actually writting you through a memorial page I made for you . Today is exactly 2 months since you passed away . But it feels like yesterday. I have so much I have wanted to say to you and I think now I am ready .. First I want to tell you how sorry I am for not replying to your last email .. I know I could have at least wrote you back and said I love you to .. or we miss you to or something and even tho there is no excuse please know it was not personal I was just soo busy with everything around here !  
 Your memorial service was done really nice .. I know that sounds corney but they really did a nice job. There was so many people there more then I could count anyway ! That just goes to show you how loved you are !!! Dad and Dave tried to be really strong . And your nieces and nephews you would have been so proud of them .. they were on there best behavior .
Mom and Angel was there to..for a moment it felt like we were all a family again .. it sucks tho that to get everyone in the same place it had to be for your memorial!
 We really miss you and love you . I know that you are with us all the time .. but that just doesnt seem to be enough sometimes. I wish I would have been more consistant with keeping in touch with you . I know they kids say all the time how they are so happy for the time they did get to talk to you online and see you on webcam!
I will never forget that day my friend was over here and we were all just agravating the daylights out of you ! lol ..
 Not a day goes by that we dont think about you or talk about you or miss you ! We replay every memory over and over and tell anyone who will listen what a great person you were !
You truely was a great brother and uncle! It almost feels unreal that you are not here anymore ! Sometimes I want to think this is all a bad bad dream and we will wake up soon.I know dad is having a rough time so I just ask that you be his guardian angel ! He to really misses you and so does Dave!
I know your sitting up there with god watching us all the time ..I hope you like the site I made in your honor! I really tried my hardest to show what a great man you were!
We all love you Steven ! And we all miss you !!!
I know in time we will heal but we will never forget you !
Love and Hugs
Your big sister ...
Lisa Close

SO ONE WHO WILL BE MISS BY ALL  / Carol Logan (cousin)

 YOU WILL BE SADLY MISS BY YOUR AUNT BETTYANN AND GREAT- UNCLE BILL LOGAN  AND YOUR COUSIN ELEANOR AND CAROL AND BETSY AND NANCY AND THERE CHILDREN...MATT AND DWAYNE MASTEN AND CHELSEA AND CHANLER SLONECKER.....YOU ARE WITH THE ANGELS NOW.......AND WITH YOUR OTHER COUSIN WARD LOGAN.......AND OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS YOU NEVER NEW......LOVE AND MISS U

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sorry / Ray
to family and friends,
I want to offer you my condolences. I lost two of my friends within days that you lost steven. (www.Remy-perrone.memory-of.com and www.brianna-titcomb.memory-of.com) Brianna passed on the day before and Remy pass on 4 days before but I always think about them. Both were in school still, and I know that may be a little bit different I still feel what you are going through. I think about them everyday and I will never stop thinking about them. But I know you will all pull through, and I want to say 'I'm Sorry'
-Ray Close

FOREVER IN MY HEART  / Lisa Grubb (Sister)

 
Forever in my heart never
out of sight ..
Your soul has drifted on
 to the brighter light.
We will miss your laughter
the shine of your smiling face
But with your love surrounding
us .. Your memories will never
be erased.
I sit and wonder why
But no answer is clear
I cant imagine our lives without you
or how we stop the tears!
I know our good lord is holding you
in his arms so tight .. so when I lay
my head down I will pray to him tonite.
Oh my dear lord..
hear my tearful voice. Hold Steven
in your love and let the Angels rejoice.
For heaven is a better place and pain or
hurt he won't feel.. And if I think he gets
to lonely let it be our voice he hears!

Love and Many hugs!
Lisa , Frank and The Kids
Copyright © Lisa M. Grubb

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